As the Bridesmaids enter into their 40’s we find ourselves assessing our accomplishments and wondering what lies ahead. Ok, let’s be honest, we also dwell on our lost loves, the things we should have, could have and would have done differently. Afterall, we’re only human and it’s natural to wonder “what if?”. So in preparation of entering a brand new decade and phase of our lives, Bridesmaid #1 (me) and Bridesmaid #2 decided to seek counsel. No, not the legal kind, but that of a stone thrower and tarot card reader. Don’t laugh–this is serious stuff!
As two intelligent, professional women, we decided to invest some time and $60 towards some mind altering, life changing advice. Ok, so maybe it’s not going to be so mind altering and life changing but hey what do we have to lose? So an hour later, I find out that I really need to not be so hard on myself, let go of the past and perhaps work a little harder on giving off warm vibes if I’m ever going to break my current dating trend. After 5 different card readings the Ice Queen makes an appearance twice…I obviously need to break out the heating pad and warm up! I also received a head’s up….Mr. Creativity who I’ve not yet met, may get me arrested…I’m relying on the Bridesmaids to keep my nose clean. Hey, maybe I’m not the Bridesmaid that needs to be cautious–I have always claimed to be the “voice of reason” of the 3 of us! I am the least likely to meet a guy who may get me arrested. All in all, I walked away feeling that I was gaining perspective on what I want to do to ensure the next 10 years make for the “Fabulous Forties”!
Bridesmaid #2 (aka Ice Queen #2) has her first tarot reading and is surprised to hear a brief recap of the last 3 years of her life. I did not fill him in–I swear! Surprisingly, (sarcasm) the Ice Queen card makes an appearance or two for her too! Yes, we are somewhat alike with regards to first impressions. Honest, we’re not bitchy or stand-offish. We are reserved and at times shy. At the end of Bridesmaid #2 reading, she walks away knowing that things are going to be very, very good again.
Was anything disclosed that we didn’t already know? No. What it was though, was an opportunity to share, reflect and make a conscious decision to not let our 40’s be known as the Ice Age. Yes, it’s a work in progress but I’m happy knowing that I have Bridesmaid #2 and #3 along for the ride!